Thursday

Danger! Been So Long (sing it!)

Wow so I've been away from this here blogosphere for a million and a half years. Sorry for not reading/writing anything in the past mmm...2 months?! It's been busy and crazy and I feel like all I do lately is work. Not a whole lot of inspiration for posts there right now, unfortunately.

Let's see...updates?

  • My father has settled onto his new place with his bro and fam. It's actually been really nice because when I see either of my parents they are both in much better moods then when they were together. As strange as it all still is, I just know it's best this way for EVERYONE involved. Thank baby Jebus for small miracles
  • I was supposed to go to Mexico (Puerto Vallarta) for a week at the end of this month. Ya so that's not gonna happen. Even if we still wanted to go all of the flights are canceled and we're SOL. I feel really sorry for anyone who was planning a wedding down there at this time - yikes!
  • Two of my very good friends have gone through major relationship trauma lately. One of them found out that her fiance had been dating another girl for a few months. Awesome.
  • Another of my good friends' boyfriends decided to break up with her after NINE years, on her birthday, via text message. Yup, that's as scummy as they come. Oh wait, he also called her a cunt and told her to move all her "shit" out in a nice voicemail he left her that day. She can't even get half the house because he hadn't gotten around to switching it into his name from his Aunt.
  • All of which pretty much makes me glad I'm single right now. That guy I was seeing for a bit? Ya, he turned weird. He got kind of needy and expected me to just go wherever he was. He would get really whiny if I was tired and just wanted to stay home or if I was working and didn't feel like going out afterwards. Especially when the text messages I'd get were simply: "@ Melrose[bar]" when we had never discussed meeting that night. Sorry, not giving up my life to tag along with you or just coming when you text like a little puppy.
  • I had my 25th birthday a few weeks ago. I'm not really sure why this birthday feels the worst so far but I actually feel like I have no excuse to get drunk and make bad decisions. Le sigh. Doesn't mean I won't still do that but hey, now I get to feel guilty about it! Cheers!
  • Instead of Mexico, my girlfriend and I are heading to Vegas! I haven't actually ever been there (unless you count when I was 8 - which I don't really) so I'm very excited. We're staying at Mandalay Bay for 5 nights - it's going to be a Gong show!
So there's my life in a nutshell - hopefully I'll get my act together here soon and be able to write more. All this working and making money is really starting to hinder my artistic side.

13 comments:

Andy said...

Glad to have you back and happy belated birthday!

Sprinkled Words (former Miss Milk) said...

Wow. Those are some pretty horrific break ups. :|
Have fun in Vegas.

Ben said...

That testy breakup? BAD. I broke up with someone on valentines day by email once but I think that one's still worse.

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Matt said...

Happy belated birthday...

it's about time you gave us an update!

Kez said...

Geez, those are some tough dumpings for your friends. Bastards.
Sorry that dude turned weird. Needy types are disturbing in any gender.
You're better off :)
Happy belated birthday. I just joined the quarter century club too. It's weird. I feel grown up but I now feel guilty for wanting to run amok as well!

Some Guy said...

Thanks for the update and have fun in Vegas!

BeckEye said...

If you're feeling badly about turning 25, I'll gladly switch ages with you.

d said...

Happy birthday, Mandalay Bay is awesome (def go to the adult pool, it's hilarious) and welcome back :)

P said...

At least your next birthday isn't the big 3-0!!! :)

Hope that's you back permanently in the blogosphere now!

yllwdaisies said...

I'm glad your parents are more comfortable in their respective environments. It's tough.

For those gals, at least it didn't happen after years of marriage, huh? That's all I can say; it just sucks all around to have your heart broken.

Happy belated birthday, & VEGAS!!! Have lots of fun, girlie. Yes, girlie, cause 25's still young. I had a nervous breakdown when I hit it, & started using moisturizer daily then. Who knew it would be nothing compared to turning 30!

Andhari said...

OH MY GOD that guy should be smacked all the way, what a b*tch, and poor girl. I'm so sorry for your friend. This makes being single soooo much better and you're so right to quit any relationship with that needy guy.

Welcome back to blogosphere :)

The Alleged Ringleader said...

YAY for Vegas! You guys will have a BLAST! Um btw the offer still stands to come with us to Jamaica in June :)